Rom 8:1 There is therefore now no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus, who don't walk according to the flesh, but according to the Spirit. (vs6) For the mind of the flesh is death, but the mind of the Spirit is life and peace; (vs8) and they that are in the flesh cannot please God. (Italics for emphasis). It’s amazing how we base so much of our decisions on the way we feel. Feeling finds its place in the flesh and the scripture teaches that they that leave by the flesh cannot please God (vs. 8). If there is no condemnation for only those who walk according to the Spirit, then those who walk according to the flesh are walking the road of condemnation. The bible teaches in the letter of paul to the Galatians, chapter 5 verses 19-21 reads:
Now the doings (practices) of the flesh are clear (obvious): they are immorality, impurity, indecency, Idolatry, sorcery, enmity, strife, jealousy, anger (ill temper), selfishness, divisions (dissensions), party spirit (factions, sects with peculiar opinions, heresies), Envy, drunkenness, carousing, and the like. I warn you beforehand, just as I did previously, that those who do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God. (AMP)
If we stop and think of some problems that we have in our lives, they are a direct result of the cravings of the flesh. The flesh is so powerful that it can rule and ruin a man’s life. The voice of the flesh speaks a million and one times a day, its favorite word is I. It takes a conscious effort not to leave a life of self. I once heard a great preacher say that your greatest enemy is yourself. She was talking about the flesh. We need to deny the flesh; we need to die to self to be able to leave above it. We need to stop and ask ourselves what the word of God says about what we feel like doing, we need to ask ourselves what we would have done if we were not feeling like that. Acting on the answers to these questions will allow us to leave above the control of the flesh. How do we check our feelings with the word of God if we don’t know what the word of God says, we need to study the word of God daily to be able to act based on it. We could say that it is very hard when it comes to some feelings, every feeling has a root, if we do not water the root, it will not grow. Feelings are inevitable; they come every time, if not controlled, it will control you.